To solve a marital conflict, the couple has these solutions:
1. Begin solving a conflict by praying
2. Set a specific time when to diuscuss the problem
3. Specify the issue, define it
4. Admit that that you have contributed to the problem,
5. Brainstorm, write it down
6. Set another meeting to discuss progress
7. Work on the probem as they arise
8. It should be a win win team,
However, the above may not apply in these situations:
1. A spouse is having an affair
2. There is physical, emotional abuse or substance abuse
The couple should always be guided by the following
Psalm 3:3-7
Let not kindness and fidelity leave you;
bind them around your neck;
Then will you win favor and good esteem before God and man,
Trust in the Lord with all your heart,
on your own iuntelligence rely not;
In all your ways be mindful of him.
and he will make straight your paths.
Be not wise on your own eyes,
fear the Lord and turn away from evil;
This will mean health for your flesh
and vigor for your bones.
